Alternative Education
This weekend, I had the chance to attend a theory class about the Montessori education method. In short, it is an alternative teaching method where they maximize a child’s development based on their tendencies. The lecture was fascinating learning … especially the few tips I got from our lecturer:
- only display several toys in sight at any time. This teaches the child to focus on few things rather than many things (see, my theory of no toys was correct!)
- rewards – we like to reward our children when they do something right (put things away, sleep on time, etc). However, when we reward, we should think of an experience (e.g. going to the playground), rather than just material rewards (such as candy, books, toys)
- routines are very important to young babies (am I just reinforcing myself now or are these really true?). Hence, it’s crucial that a baby have some predictable pattern that they can go by on a daily basis.
- before they’re 3 years old, their mind is unconscious. Hence, when they scream or get frustrated, they are not being vindictive!
- many of the things in a Montessori environment can be replicated at home… which means we can prep Michael before class even begins!!!
- language – you should use one language exclusively by one person, rather than mixing languages, i.e. Ian should speak exclusively in English and me in Chinese. This way Michael will have maximum opportunity to grasp both languages equally without confusion. Ian is not convinced yet… will keep trying!
All in all, it was a really fruitful discussion and I have learned a lot. Much like hypnobirthing, I am now a believer in Montessori education and would be keen to put Michael in this environment for his kindergarten!
Here is this week’s photos (as cute as ever!):
with love from Hong Kong.
p.s. Michael is meeting his Nanna and Poppa in Australia in 3 weeks time. Every one is very excited!
March 19th, 2008 at 5:04 pm
hey i’ve been to a montessori parents workshop too and found it very useful.
i’m now reading a book called ‘montessori from the start’ which gives lots of ideas on how to aid infants’ learning in each area of development.
wow u’ve already decided on which kindie to send michael to?
i’m still struggling. with the huge number of piggie babies born last year, can foresee it’s gonna be a nightmare getting places at school! 